Wisconsin Wedding Planning for Couples Who Value Presence

For over 16 years and nearly 400 weddings, we have guided couples through thoughtful planning and execution so every detail is handled and nothing feels overwhelming.

With a structured process and personalized care, your celebration unfolds smoothly, allowing you to be present, confident, and at ease.

About Us

Hello & Welcome!

At Distinctly Yours Wedding & Events, it is our goal to help you plan and host an unforgettable celebration with no detail overlooked, allowing you to fully enjoy it with those you love most.

As trusted experts, we confidently direct every phase of the planning and design process to deliver an efficient and elevated experience. Planning a wedding should not be hard or overwhelming. With steady direction and intentional planning, you can move through this season with confidence and peace of mind.

What we do.

Our Services

Full Service Planning

This comprehensive planning and design service is ideal for couples who want experienced guidance from beginning to end. From securing the right venue to curating a full weekend of experiences for you and your guests, this service ensures that everything is thoughtfully managed. We guide you at every step, making decisions together and executing your vision with precision and care.

Wedding Management

This service is ideal for couples who have thoughtfully planned their celebration but want experienced oversight to ensure everything comes together smoothly as the wedding day approaches. This wedding management service provides ongoing support throughout your planning journey, offering peace of mind from the first steps to the final touches, while letting you and your fiancée plan as much of the wedding as you’d like. And of course, we will be the point person on your wedding day ensuring that everything flows smoothly so that you can be present. 

Bride, groom, and wedding party playing with bubbles at reception

Explore our Published Weddings

Bride and groom by the lake at sunset

Premier Bride of Northeast and Central Wisconsin

Courtney & Adam’s Rainy, Rustic, Romantic Wedding at Chippewa Retreat Resort

Bride and groom kissing during recessional

Wisconsin Bride

Morgan & Ben’s Colorful Camp Wedding Weekend at Camp Elsewhere in Waupaca, Wisconsin

Profile photo of Marsha VanArk, Lead Planner & Owner at Distinctly Yours Wedding & Event

Wisconsin wedding planner
owner & lead planner

Meet Marsha

Marsha VanArk is a storyteller, a straight shooter, and a steady source of calm.

With over 400 weddings thoughtfully planned and executed, Marsha works closely with engaged couples, many of whom live out of town and balance full careers, who care deeply about their guests and want to genuinely enjoy their wedding day.

With an extensive background in hospitality, including more than a decade managing restaurants and leading teams through a global pandemic, Marsha brings a rare combination of composure, clarity, and heart. Her trusted vendor relationships and refined planning process remove guesswork, reduce overwhelm, and quietly manage the behind the scenes details so you do not have to carry them.

She is known for confidently guiding couples through intricate and unconventional celebrations, transforming vision into reality with intention and care. Marsha anticipates needs before they arise, protects your peace of mind, and ensures you are fully present, able to be both the guest of honor and a gracious host.

There are no do overs.
Your wedding day deserves to feel calm, joyful, and unmistakably yours.

What Sets Us Apart

With trusted guidance and excellence in execution, Distinctly Yours Wedding & Events provides a deeply personalized experience for their clients and their guests. 

Our Approach

Our planning approach is highly personalized, gathering all the details graciously to create a deeply customized experience for you and your guests.

Experience

With nearly 400 events planned, our experienced team guarantees seamless execution, managing every aspect with professionalism and care. Our meticulous attention to detail and proactive problem-solving ensure that your event unfolds flawlessly.

Strong Relationships

We have built and maintained strong relationships with our clients and vendors, fostering a collaborative and trustful environment that ensures a smooth planning process and exceptional event experience for all.

Creative Execution

We excel at taking even the most unconventional or intricate wedding ideas and turning them into reality with extraordinary finesse and style.
Calm, Organized Planning with Personal Connection

We get to know you so we can help create a wedding that looks and feels just like you.

We want to create something beautiful and fun for you and your guests. We listen to what fun means to you and see how we can create that experience together.