Day 8: Searching for Your Wedding Dress
Now to the “fun” parts of wedding planning. There are a list of things I communicate with my brides when they are about to go wedding dress shopping…
First, you want to have a venue & wedding style selected before gown shopping. Your gown should be a reflection of you, as well as appropriate to the type of event and style you are having.
Research! What you need to do before going dress shopping…
1. PHOTOS.
The only way you’re going to know what dresses you like is by looking! Start off looking at photos online, magazines and designers’ websites, etc.
2. REFINE.
Just like with any other type of search for inspiration, you’ll want to weed out what doesn’t quite stand out to you after a few hours or days. Go back and look through everything again, remove photos, and refine your “collection” of dresses that you like. Repeat if necessary.
3. DEFINE.
You should see some sort of pattern once you’ve refined what you saved. It could be a fabric, a dress style, a type of embellishment, a color, or even a designer. Gather the similarities and define them. Know what it is that you’re liking so you can share the with the bridal salon.
Visiting Bridal Salons
Begin by researching the styles various stores have before you make an appointment. Remember, MAKE AN APPOINTMENT! This way you will get the best attention and service. Be sure they carry the overall style you are looking for. If you are ordering a gown, you will need to allow 6-8 months for the gown to arrive. BE OPEN TO DIFFERENT STYLES that may be suggested to you — you never know what you’re going to fall in love with!
“I was very nervous about going wedding dress shopping. One thing I didn't understand is how important it is to trust the sales person at the bridal salon. Trust them as the professionals they are. It helped me relax and not be so nervous. Then, I was able to really enjoy myself”
Nicole Proulx, Current client with Distinctly Yours Wedding & Events. Wedding planned for 2022.
Important Wedding Dress Shopping Tips
- Go shopping with an open mind. Communicate with the dress clerk/designer what is important to you in regards to the elements of the dress. Yet, be open to letting the “professional” pick out a few dresses they would recommend.
- Choose someone (one or two people) to go with you that would be honest yet not too opinionated. Remember, this is supposed to be fun and exciting. Not stressful.
- Pick a dress that is flattering to YOUR body type…not someone else’s or what is popular. I have seen so many brides choose a dress that is beautiful, but not fitting nor flattering to their body type.
- Make sure the dress is comfortable. You are going to wear it for a really, really long
Day 8: Conclusion
Happy Shopping,
Marsha
Just Engaged Series: 10 Easy Steps to Get Your Wedding Planning Started with Confidence
- Day 1-Wedding Planning Checklist
- Day 2-Set a Budget
- Day 3-Start Your Guest List
- Day 4-Choosing Your Venue
- Day 5-Choosing Your Wedding Party
- Day 6-Choosing Your Style
- Day 7-Hiring Your Wedding Vendors
- Day 8-Searching for Your Wedding Dress
- Day 9-Crafting Your Wedding Day Timeline
- Day 10-Your Wedding Day Details